What’s Wrong With That?

                

“Right and wrong, good and bad, poc and pod…” Nazlı was singing a long and rhyming motto that continued. It had been balsam on her tongue for a long time. She didn't know its meaning either. She went to an education that was trending recently. Showy people, including medical doctors were coming to the training. Thinks like the importance of thinking big and dreaming were said. She was taught things like how she could get what she wanted by chanting this motto. It sounded very nice.

“You will not do anything, you will just say these words." said the instructor. A participant who was a mathematics teacher also said that he had his students apply it. He was no longer teaching mathematics, but he was explaining how he solved the questions using this method enthusiastically.

Asking from the universe !

“Whatever you want , you will hang its picture on the wall and look at it constantly. A car, a house or even a villa with a pool. Whatever you dream, you will get it.”

What everyone does may be normal, but is it right?" Nazlı thought. "What am I doing here?" she thought about. And suddenly she got up from there. She continued to think, "I wonder if these things existed at all times. And could anything be achieved without labor?”

There are many mistakes that we make unconsciously. Have we given too much meaning to this life, belongings, things…? However, these were the objects of this temporary worldly life. We were worried about that the color tone of the curtain's tassel did not match the color tone of the carpet's pattern.

Or it was out of stock at the dealership from the model of the car which we wanted so much. We would wait 3 months for it…

Didn't we feel the same sadness when we couldn’t get into school that we want? You know, we were going to show off when we won that departmant. We didn't know that sadness was complex when we lost.

We felt the same sadness when we were not hired for the job at the top of that skyscraper. However, Sister Neriman’s daughter got into that job. What was wrong with us that they didn't hire us, right?

Didn't we all feel sad when we couldn't get the latest cell phone for our daughter, who won high school? Or didn't we feel a bragging when we bought it? Besides, what were we missing from brother Faruk? He bought it for his seventh-grade son, who couldn't even pass his classes.

As the importance we attach to things has increased, we have lost the values in our inner world all together.

I don't know what brand it is, we use for our beauty some cellulite creamsand cosmetics. We can never understand their content and these are very expensive. Didn't those who bought these lose money on the food they really needed?

Yes yes... People either choose the real or the fake. “There is no emptiness in life.” says the Experiential Teaching.

When people get away from the real; they gets closer to the fake step by step.

When you don't choose a book or an education that will change our lives and bring us closer to the reality, ask from the universe! Didn't some of us turn to the mottos and trainings of "it happened, it happened, it happened"?

 

We had so many expectations from this life. And when it didn't happen, we were disappointed. And then we hit our heads and chests and sought help from so-and-so method. And this was practiced by Sister Nezahat, whom we trusted very much. She was a sane woman, why wouldn't she be?

When we preferred the temporary to the permanent and directed our expectations to the outside world, we persisted in the mistakes that we made.  We started to say “Everybody does it. What's wrong with that?”

However, we did not think about that. The reality of something was not in everybody do it. It was current for all times, all subjects, all places, all people. 

Thinking and asking questions are the door to real. There is hope. By asking the right questions, we can reach the real and return from the mistakes that we have made.